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Judgement & Forgivenessby Nancy Arruda January 25, 2012 As a society, each individual within it, judges the actions of others based on their beliefs or based on the beliefs of others that they have accepted as their own. Within the Universal Laws, the only judgement that exists is the judgement towards the self or a belief within the self. That aspect of judgment is usually there because of a healing that needs transpire within the self. Judgment is the opportunity to recognize that there is something within you needing to heal. If you are recognizing that you are judging another or a situation, or if an individual is judging you, then take this as a sign you need to heal within the self. Perhaps there was an incident or event that created trauma in the past and one never allow the opportunity for healing to transpire. Until the healing transpires, you will continue to judge others and others will continue to judge you. Those judgements may activate any type of pain you've experienced in the past which is not been healed. We have been told and potentially raised as individuals not to judge others, however, quite often those that tell us not to judge, judge others all the time. So we are told one thing but and shown he opposite. When we judge another human being for their actions, we are judging our belief around that action, we are judging what we may believe is right or wrong. Also, we may be judging that same quality within our self, and our unconscious mind can see that we behave that way. But our conscious mind refuses to see it within our self. Notice how you judge another and then ask yourself... when did I display that type of behaviour and what was the outcome? How has that type of behaviour serving me? How did is it serving the other person you are currently witnessing it in? Is there a difference in the outcome of service or is it the same? Pure energy is non-judgemental. Energy follows the path of least resistance, and it simply IS. In regards to energy there is no right or wrong… It just IS. When we experience a situation that we do not like, we need to ask ourselves… how did we energetically attract that situation? From a logical perspective and quite often from an emotional perspective, we will say "there's no way I would have attracted that!" And from a logical/emotional perspective that is true, however, from an unconscious perspective that is not true. If we project judgment on others, we will continually find ourselves in situations of being judged. If we keep situations or events that we do not like that transpired to us buried in our unconscious, we will continue to attract situations or events that ask you to look into that part of your own (un)-consciousness and heal it through forgiveness. To heal a dynamic within the self, we will be placed in a situation or attract a situation to our self that allows us the opportunity to experience something that we never said we would be, do, think or act upon. We will be constantly be shown through what we attract, what we need to heal within our-self! There is no right or wrong, there is only integrity and honouring what feels aligned to you in the moment. As every experience you have, creates who you BEcome. There are reasons for experiences, the ones we like and the ones we don’t like. Through inner contemplation you may discover the reason, however, there are times when you will not. Be open and try to experience the reason, and through this you shall find the forgiveness and the healing necessary. The question you need to ask yourself within those experiences are: What have you learned? What have you learned from the experiences that you may not like? Where have those experiences brought you now? Have you been able to forgive yourself in the role that YOU played? Have you been able to forgive the roles that others have played-out who were involved within that experience? Have you been able to move forward in your life with or without that experience? Are you going to let one experience stop you from living authentically? If you are honouring your centered, truthful feelings from a place of non-attachment then those are the feelings I am speaking of honouring. Not the erratic, emotionally triggered type feelings, the ones that have you screaming and yelling about injustice or something being wrong. Look at your situation from outside of yourself, remover your personal experiences and speak authentically from a place of non-attachment and you will see the non-judgement that I am referring to. Not from belief, not from feeling, but from a place of BEing, from a place of heart-centeredness. It is clear that if something does not align within yourself, then don’t focus on it. However, every time you come across this questioning, and pondering of a situation, then you must look into it. Otherwise you will keep attracting similar situations in which are asking you to look again, or to look deeper, to heal so that you can move forward into a place of BEing where you desire to be. There is always an opportunity to heal, to move forward, and that takes as long as you need it to take, a day, a week, a month, a year, a decade, or even a lifetime. Hey, and if you believe in re-incarnation, now you can go into multiple lifetimes of reliving it offering you the ability to heal what needs to be healed within you to move forward and beyond the situation. Are you ready to heal? Are you ready to move forward on a path of living from the heart authentically? Forgive yourself and you heal the dynamic! Move forward a better person no matter what your experience. Granted bad things do happen, and we are not in control of everything that happens to us. There are some learning's that go beyond our control for reasons we can not explain. If you can find an explanation within the self, where you remove judgement from your self and others that contributed to the experience in question, then that is when the healing begins at a heart level. You don’t have to verbally communicate your forgiveness to anyone, but you must first accept it within yourself and then do what you need to do. Transmute the pain into understanding, and you will see, you will experience, a heart centered connection to the self like never before! You will experience Inner Freedom!
If you require a "Guide" on your path to Inner Freedom, contact Nancy Arruda today!
This article is COPYRIGHT, 2012 by Nancy Arruda.
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